The relationship between people is an ever fascinating topic to me. Well, we humans are social animals, so interpersonal connections are crucial to everyone, even the most anti-social of us. Anyway, today theme is “unexpected bonding“: people who aren’t expected to be close, or even expected to be “enemies”, who somehow become close friends. Continue reading
(Just being clear upfront: This is not a romantic post 😛 )
These days I don’t feel like myself. I feel lethargic, disengaged, detached. I feel like I’m just drifting through life without directions, letting the currents of life carry me to wherever without making a splash. There is a stillness to life and it’s not the kind of stillness that brings peace to the soul, it brings uneasiness and an intangible sense of fear. It’s rather disturbing.
The book Good to Great by Jim Collins is one of my favorites, a classic in business and management which is highly recommended by all sorts of executives including Jeff Bezos. To me though, the most impactful idea or more precisely, powerful image in the book does not come from Collins himself but from an executive named Fred Purdue. It is the image of squiggly things under a rock. Eww! I know right?
It’s not just anxiety, it makes me lazy as ****
My apology for the **** above, but I’m just frustrated. Like really frustrated. Why? Because I just can’t make up my mind, I have too many choices! I’ve been troubled by this issue quite a lot lately, so I decided to google “too many choices”, and lo and behold, it is actually a psychological problem quite prominent in behavioral economics, with a number of studies and books published. Continue reading
The status quo bias is a term used in psychology to refer to a cognitive effect in which people prefer the “current situation” even when they are aware of the benefits of changing. I first encountered this term while watching an economic course video series from The Great Courses (I like these videos a lot, but recently haven’t had time for them), and I almost shouted out loud “Holy crap, that’s me!” Continue reading
(Note: this was posted on my old blog on September 17, 2015)
If you care about Amazon at all, you probably know that they held an event on July 15th 2015 to celebrate the e-commerce giant’s 20thbirthday. This event, suitably named “Prime Day” was advertised to be a “more-deals-than-Black-Friday” shopping bonanza and one of the main purposes was to “lure” more people into the Prime program. The excitement over this unprecedented online July’s Black Friday built up substantially over the preceding weeks and then, burst spectacularly on social media sites, where people posted all sorts of remarks about the deals being offered. Despite all this drama and early reports on how Walmart beat Amazon on Prime Day, Amazon has decided to make Prime Day an annual event, enforcing their claims that July 15th has been a sweeping success. Continue reading
Featuring a real story about how I overcame my fear of a professor 😀
(Note: this was posted on my old blog on July 8, 2015)
I just got back in the States a day ago after a long flight and now I’m experiencing some jet lag. That’s why I’m still wide awake at 2 in the morning (and to make up for what’s this’s gonna do to my face, I’m already having a facial mask on). Being alone and awake at 2am makes one think about all sorts of fear, and since I don’t have anything better to do right now, I will share with you some stories about my fear. Continue reading